Bad Flesh Days II

“Desolation is when we are bogged down in spirit, in mental darkness or turmoil, inclined to earthly things, restless and agitated in temptation. This leads to loss of faith, hope and love. One is completely listless, tepid, and unhappy and feels separated from our Creator and Lord…. One should never make a change during a time of desolation… For just as the good spirit guides and counsels us in times of consolation, so it is the evil spirit who guides and counsels us in times of desolation. We will never reach the right decision by following his counsels.”
-Ignatius of Loyola

To Marry or Not To Marry

Jesus and Paul advised their disciples not to marry. They were right. Marriage is a distraction. A bad marriage is deadly. But sex is kinda fun. And kids are a blast, when they’re not driving you nuts. It’s up to you—what you want to do.