According to Meyers-Briggs, I'm Like This...

Most people don’t understand themselves any better than we understand ourselves. So often it is better to observe people than to ask what they are like.

"Sure I Understand You... I Think..."

Constantly work on communication and social connections. Our social abilities are never something we can just take for granted. One day a communication technique will work and the next day it won’t. So always ask how people want to be communicated to. But believe how they react better than what they say.

Why Won't You Talk To Me?

Communication requires two people to agree how they communicate. We must be prepared to communicate and we cannot force anyone else to have a time of communication. The more serious the matter, the more important to set a time where everyone can speak and listen openly.

Qualifications for Marriage

If you do plan to get married, marry someone who you can talk to over the long term. Don’t let hormones make the decision for you. Your potential spouse may seem nice, and have something that really attracts you—but you need to build a relationship for a lifetime. Make sure the building blocks of relationship are there—communication of the hard issues, conflict management, a love of the Lord Jesus above all else.